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Hello Explicit Facters, how great it is to have you back for Part 1 of another motivational article.
This one is going to hit some of you like a brick and if it doesn’t, you surely know someone who you can toss this brick to.
You might not like it but we are calling some of you out.
The smart will learn from this, while the haters will be triggered.
Best of luck! Here are signs that you are a hater!
You Believe You Are Always Right
Just because you might have an answer doesn’t mean that there can’t be other answers, some even better than yours.
This is one of those things, the school has mistakenly inserted into the mindset of the student, that there’s only one correct answer.
The more you experience the real world, your mind expands.
You understand that an answer that works for you might not work for someone else.
We’re super complex beings wrapped up in an even more complex socio-economic system and you’re sitting there, trying to force your cube perspective into the circle hole that is everyone else.
The more you do it, the less time people want to spend with you.
Putting Others Down Makes You Feel Strong, Important and Alive
A big sign you’re actually a hater comes from the way you feel when you cut someone else’s wings – metaphorically speaking.
You take pleasure in causing pain and suffering, but justify it as being just physiological…because you know…you don’t think of yourself as a sociopath.
Respect is more valuable than fear!
If you really want to become strong and important, earn the respect of those around you, because when the time comes they will stand up for you and do whatever they can to help. In a socially driven economy, it’s not the strongest individual who is at the top of the food chain, but the one who has the most supporters.
You Gossip And Love To Stir Up Drama
Gossip implies you’re sharing demeaning information just to gain social power in a group.
You use other people to put yourself on the pedestal, without realizing that in doing so, you’re self-sabotaging your own image.
As a rule of thumb:
If someone is talking about someone else behind their back, they will do the same with you, if the opportunity is presented.
Gossip and social drama are signs of an insecure and immature individual.
Back in the day, in order to have a conversation, you had to be in the same room with someone or at least have some private contact information.
One of the benefits of this system was that you never heard from people who have no relationship with you, they did their thing, you did yours.
Today, you can be unemployed, neckbeard type of a person and tweet the meanest possible things a person can imagine, to someone like Kevin Hart.
Twitter has democratized the possibility of being an anonymous bully. If that’s you, maybe it’s time to re-evaluate everything about yourself.
How did you end up in the position of doing anything you can just to get a reaction from someone who doesn’t care about your existence?
You Believe You Are Entitled To Other People’s Time Or Attention
Entitled people…where do we even start?
For some reason, they overvalue their own time and undervalue the time of others.
Yeah, you tweeted once at Rihanna and she didn’t reply…better leave 20 comments saying how she’s horrible, right?
For this type of hater, there’s nothing important than themselves.
They will ask you to stop working on yourself to help them with your own thing, no matter what it is.
They expect you to put their problems above your own. Some of them might even expect you to thank them for the fortunate position you put yourself in.
You Follow People You Pretend, Not To Like Just To Keep Tabs On Their Life
We told you we’re going to call you out on your BS.
If you really didn’t care about someone, why spend any amount of time, efforts and energy on them.
Truth be told you have a fascination with them, sometimes about what they are doing is appealing to you, but the general consensus among your peer is that you’re not supposed to like them, so you pretend not to.
When you’re by yourself you spend your own time consuming what they are putting out.
People bash reality TV as being nonsense, yet some of these show have the highest viewership.
If you need a reality check ‘Keeping up with the Kardashians’ have been going on for seventeen seasons!
Why hide behind a curtain of hate to justify your fascination?
How many times have you heard people looking at a Rothko painting worth tens of millions of dollars saying: I could’ve done that!
How many people watch a stand-up special and feel like they could do it themselves?
This happens even in the business space, once you become successful, people you were surrounded by in the beginning might think they could have done the same thing…hell knows you might even be one of those people yourself.
It’s easy to look at a Rothko, a Joe Rogan, a Chiara Ferragni and think that would’ve been possible for you as well, because it’s true, the opportunity was there, you just didn’t have the discipline, the focus and the drive to make it happen.
“Success is the result of continuously taking action in the pursuit of your goal for extended periods of time.”
These people and the likes of others have simply put in more work than others and focused on improving over time.
It’s easy to look at the single piece of the puzzle and think to yourself that you could do it, but that piece alone is not why successful people end up where they are.
It’s because of all the pieces, slowly built and polished over the years!
“The life you live in the reflection of your actions!”
If you finally want to break free of this jail of delusion you’ve built for yourself, we extremely recommend picking up Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink.
It might just be the book that cuts through all the bull that you’ve been telling yourself for years.
You‘re Advising People Not To Try At All Because They Might Fail
Whenever people come to you with a new idea you’re quick to shut them down.
It makes you feel smart.
You take the slightest chance of failure and stretch it like chewing gum.
You might even follow up with some personal examples of how you wanted to do the exact same thing or something similar and it just didn’t work out.
Plus, can you imagine what other people will say once you fail?
This is a hater mindset.
You’re not been constructive, you’re not helping.
All you are doing is making other people feel small.
We’re sure you can relate to this point!
If you were not the one who was putting others down, you definitely have been at the receiving end at some point in your life.
Either a partner, or teacher, or friend has made fun of your goals and dreams.
Haters never understand that failure is actually part of the process of becoming successful.
In order to achieve your goals, you have to accept failure as part of the journey and keep moving past it. Because of the way a hater’s mind works, they always look at failure as final, as embarrassing and something you should avoid completely.
This is the exact reason why haters never get to experience what true success feels like.
When you were young you believed the sky was the limit that you were destined for greatness, that you were born different and was supposed to be the hero that slays the dragon…
At least that’s what you’ve been led to believe.
Everyone told you about the great potential that you were meant to do great things, but the great things never happened.
Life didn’t go the way you thought it would.
One small failure leads to another…
The business idea never took off the ground…
You never finished writing that book, painting the painting, singing the song, traveling the world, giving back, your plan to follow the passion got traded for the security of a mediocre existence.
You believed that it was just temporary and at some point, you will get back to pursuing your dream but year after year passed and you’re still nowhere near your goals.
You find comfort in the people around you who themselves are in a similar state as yours.
When you tell them about your dreams and goals, they tell you about theirs and then you go back to being the same mediocre person.
You are all aware of it and accept it as part of life, but deep down you always wondered what your life would have been like if things went your way.
This feeling of unrest has been with you for a while now and it almost feels unfair, because you know what you are capable of, that’s what makes us humans such interesting beings. “We judge others by their actions, yet we judge ourselves by our intent”.
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