Sex may not exactly be new in posh Delhi schools. Now there is sex and the cell phone.
Two Class XI students had sex on their school premises and shot the act with a mobile phone enabled with multimedia messaging service or MMS. The girl was filmed secretly by the boy while giving blowjob to him in the school’s science laboratory.
Parents and teachers were shocked by the news of the incident, but for the past month, a video of three to four minutes duration has been the most widely known secret at that School.
The video is said to have explicit footage of the two students of 17 years of age, engaging in sexual activities. The girl’s face is reportedly visible in the clip that has been circulating among students, passing from one MMS-enabled equipment camera phone in popular parlance to another. Some are believed to have downloaded the video from some Internet sites.
Both students were from affluent backgrounds, where the boy is from a business family and the girl’s father is said to be in the services.
A student of the school said: It is not as if these incidents don’t happen in other schools. Just because of what one person did all of us are being branded. I think what my mother said when she heard about it sums it all up. She told me that I should change my school.
The statement merely confirms the fact that sex does take place in Delhi’s schools and if it’s happening in the capital, there is no reason to believe other cities are immune, in which case changing schools will not help.
Worried and well-off parents have given their children cell phones to make contact in an emergency. But then they also send their children to school for a purpose other than sex.
All of us watched the above news in shell shocked mode. We all may be remembering the girl’s face clearly visible in that MMS, but did media try to find out the identity of the boy?
Was that secretly recorded MMS the only problem, or was there a bigger issue to be sorted out, both by parents and school authorities? Like sex education at the right age?
Is it not the right time to wake up and take up the long-pending issue of Sex Education with teens?
Who is responsible for Sex Education, school or parents?
Is the boy at fault for making the MMS video, without girl’s consent and then uploading it on the internet or circulating it among his friends?
Is the girl not at fault for having blind faith over his boyfriend?
What did boy gain after circulating that video with his friends or uploading that MMS video on the internet?
Was his aim to tarnish the girl’s image or to earn few extra bucks by selling it to some porn website?
Can we blame parents of both girl and boy for this fiasco?
Ultimate Pleasure. Sex is supposed to be an act of attaining the utmost pleasure of life. As per social norms, a man needs to have sex only with his wife.
Marriage Only. If anyone has sex before marriage then it’s just not acceptable in many countries, special mention to Indian Subcontinent and is to be managed under secretly.
Pre-Marital Sex. In 1980s the correct marriage age was supposed to be around 25 years. But nowadays, with rising in cost of living and ever-increasing ambitions, the marriage age is being pushed to later part of life. But, the human body has its own biological clock timings and so the concept of pre-marital sex becomes more relevant.
Marriage Arranged? Also, arrange marriage being the more prominent social norm in the Indian subcontinent, which never considers the choice of girl or boy with respect to the spouse, leads to an unhappy marriage and unfulfilled sex.
Women Empowerment. With an increase in exposure in women in the form of industries leading to the situation, where both males and females work under the same professional conditions. Also, in the office, both sexes spend more time together than their spouse at home.
Now all these above-mentioned conditions lead to two conditions, pre-marital sex and extra-marital affairs, where sex is very actively involved in both conditions.
Confused Body. With ever pushing marriage age and ticking of biological clocks, there is a requirement of release accumulated sexual stress, within one body. One way is to involve in sex (pre-marital in most cases) and other is to masturbate (when a person is shy of getting involved in pre-marital sex). In both cases, the porn videos help the individual to spice up the sexual journey.
Although the porn websites are illegal everywhere, still Porn Industry is a Billion Dollars worth of industry and growing multifold each year.
Restricted Access in Past. In older times, when mobile phones were not available to the general public, porn videos shot by professional cameramen and crew were an only available option. These videos used to be very expensive to shoot, a large amount of money is required to pay the actors and camera crew. As a result, the visitors of porn websites had to shell out money to have access to porn videos.
Advanced Technology. With the advance of mobile technology, which has a better quality of the camera, the common man has got the power to record anything and everything under the sun. The advantages of these videos are that they don’t require any professional team to shoot videos and can be shot with zero investments.
Home Recorded Intimate Videos. You may have noticed there are some videos which are not recorded by professionals, but at home. The most private moment of two people having sex, most typically a girlfriend and boyfriend or husband and wife, is getting disclosed in front of the whole world through porn.
Now a person just need one partner for sex, a camera with good resolution (which is hidden in most of the cases) and BOOM! Also, the uploading facility of these videos is also made very easily. Anyone with mobile and internet can easily upload a video in any porn website without much hassle.
Porn Revolution. Therefore, the advancement of the mobile industry has actually revolutionalized the porn industry. With traffic in million, these porn websites earn a good amount of money in advertisement. Also, with the cheap homemade videos, the accessibility of these videos in porn website is now free.
All porn sites only run up on these home-made intimate videos. It’s not just illegal, but they are also breaking the trust of their partners.
There are several reasons why youngsters are interested in making intimate videos and posting them on porn sites and we analyzed few of them as mentioned below:-
All Porn Websites are Easily Accessible. Nowadays private videos can be easily uploaded in the porn sites is because of the very easy and free accessibility. There is no sort of restrictions implied in most of the porn sites. In fact, there are people who recruit photographers or videographers, in order to create blue films and upload the same in the website.
Porn Websites Pay a lot of Money. Nowadays, porn videos are a matter of need, but it has become a large Billion Dollars business. The porn sites are making a lot of money due to the constant supply of intimate home-made videos and traffic of millions leading to high revenues from advertisements. The more they produce, the more will be their views and subscribers will visit those websites, which causes them significant monetary benefits. This is why the porn websites pay a lot of money for every intimate video which is captured by couples, or one person involved in the act. Also, it is a long time acknowledged the fact that “supply is much lower than demand”.
Dream Life through Free Money. Earning money is tough these days. Everyone wants to have swanky cars, mobile, and homes. Nowadays to have a dream girlfriend or beautiful wife, you need to have everything mentioned above.
Uploading private videos have become a significant source of easy income of many people, which is earned without much hard work. Just enjoy sex, capture the moment in your mobile or portable camera and upload them on porn websites in exchange for a handsome amount of money. Such money is easily accessible for youngsters and a secure source of income for unemployed people.
Extravagant Lifestyle and Debts. Extravagant lifestyle and easily available loans go hand in hand. Also, with banks throwing credit cards at very lucrative offers, which improves the shopping capability manifolds, the management of debt in our day to day life is getting more difficult. Sometimes, just to get out of the trap of these loans, young people resort to selling self-made intimate videos to porn websites.
Money is more important than Partner’s Emotions. This addiction to earning easy money from this source has made people play with others emotions. They are not bothered for:-
(a) How their partner will feel after noticing that their private moment is recorded and display in front of the world?
(b) What will happen to their partner, when the porn video will be circulated around?
(c) What will be the partner’s position in the family and society?
Revenge. Sometimes, the people upload intimate videos, in order to square out with the ex-partners in the form of revenge. People do break up with their ex-partners due to various reasons under the sun. Sometimes, the left out partner feels cheated and resort to taking revenge by selling intimate videos, shot during old happy times, to porn websites. In this case, the aim is to tarnish the image of the ex-partner.
Blackmail. Sometimes, a honey trap is laid to corner rich people (for easy money) or people involved with defense forces, where they are asked to shell out money in tunes of Million Dollars or share secret documents, respectively, in order to avoid uploading videos to porn websites. With the shame attached to honey trapped content of the video, the deal is sorted out behind closed doors. In many cases, the victims are double-crossed and videos are uploaded even after successful payment or sharing of secret documents.
A businessman was arrested for allegedly raping a woman. The victim alleged that the accused had been allegedly blackmailing and raping her for the past two years.
The accused was identified as Sunit (named changed). The accused had allegedly been blackmailing the victim using an MMS clip recorded in the year 2017.
The victim had allegedly met the accused at an event. The accused and the victim allegedly entered into a relationship and even moved in together. The victim discovered in 2017 that the accused had spiked her drink and filmed the two of them in an obscene position.
After learning about the clip, the victim allegedly asked the accused about it but he avoided conversation. After the confrontation, the accused allegedly changed his attitude towards the victim.
The accused allegedly started physically assaulting the victim. Following the continuous assault, the victim decided to go back to Uttar Pradesh.
After being engaged to a lawyer, the victim returned to Mumbai. After her return, the accused allegedly started stalking the victim. The accused allegedly threatened the victim and said that he would post the MMS on social media. The victim succumbed to the threats and agreed to the accused’s demands.
To be continued in the article “Secretly Filmed During Sex? (Part 2)“
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