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There is tons of information available which talks about “Dream Gentleman: What Do Women Want?“, which not only has been covered on the internet, books and other famous blockbuster movies, but not much has been discussed about Dream Lady: What Do Men Want?.
So, Team Explicit Facts decided to compile an elaborate article on this untouched, but very much relevant topic.
This trait of yours motivates us, work harder and compile an article like this one, for both ladies and gentleman.
We request all of you to go through this list, no matter what gender you identify yourself with, or how important is this to you or how well you are doing in each department. Because these are some of the important qualities to look for, in any life partner.
Just to keep things interesting, we will try our best to bring forward our unique perspective on each of them.
We promise that this will be one hell of an article, to spend some time on. Also, we request you to stay with us until the end.
If you wish to become an alpha lady or “Dream Lady”, then it is important to master as many of the qualities, mentioned below, as you can.
If you do, then you will that people will treat you differently.
You will feel better.
You will feel more powerful and more in control of the world around you.
These qualities are not about appealing about some imaginary male fantasy of “Perfect Woman”, but evolving into the best person of yourself.
With that said, let us dive into what man wants from her “Dream Lady”…
A woman needs a very good reason to have sex… but a man just a “place to have sex”.
Sex is an important part of any healthy relationship and doesn’t think it’s something to brush to the side.
It’s what builds passion. It relieves stress, and it makes the relationship fun.
There’s always room to improve in this department.
The truth is we all have our kinky side and if you’re going to spend the rest of your life with this person might as well look through the entire menu.
Just let your partner know what you want in bed.
It’s always weird when people stop having sex.
You can actually tell a couple hasn’t been active in a while. They act differently.
Take this opportunity and if that’s you. Book an escape for the weekend somewhere you can enjoy yourselves.
Take the initiative.
This one’s simple. Don’t play games. You’re either in or you’re out.
You’re either going to work on this relationship or it’s just something to keep each other day busy.
You need to have good knowledge about how things work in life and how to handle the big problems, without much hue and cry.
You need to have some basic knowledge about the following:-
Be decisive about your intentions and about where you want this relationship to go.
Don’t send mixed signals, make yourself clear and act accordingly.
There’s nothing wrong with not being ready to start a family or looking to explore other options, but make sure you keep these things clear and hold yourself accountable by the same set of rules you’re holding for your partner.
If you’re feeling lost in life, your first priority should always be figuring out what do you want from life and even more importantly what do you want from life in this stage that you find yourself in.
Once you answer this for yourself, you’ll see that everything else falls into place. Because you finally have a “North Star” to guide your actions and expectations.
We wanted to take care of this one straight out the gate.
Yes, we are biological beings programmed to reproduce.
Yes, we are a selfish species, which judges a book by its cover, but the looks are more than that.
The way a person looks tells the world a lot about who this person is.
Your aspect is like your personal life resume stapled to your forehead. In terms of physical appearance, men have different preferences but they all want you to be healthy.
They want to know if you’re taking care of yourself and of your body.
This translates to the flush of your skin, the fitness of your body and the energy the person is putting out.
So, ladies, just make an all-out effort to look better and make it a priority, because when you look great you feel great.
Here’s a protip for the ladies out there. Men prefer a more natural look to the detriment of more colourful makeup.
In nature bright colours are meant to signal a creature is poisonous.
Also, if you’re going to use makeup as the foundation of your looks, then just make sure that you blend it into your looks. Nobody wants to see you looking like those Neapolitan ice creams.
The secret is to use every tool at your disposal, to improve the way you look but do it in a way that they can’t tell you’re doing it.
Still not convinced… We hope you have seen many millionaires, having beautiful ladies around them at all times, in the name of being their secretary or event manager (Whereas, the wife may be silently staying at home and looking after home and kids!).
Before we get into this, there’s a fine line between a woman, who is confident and the one who is arrogant.
You better learn the difference between confidence and arrogance, because the one sparks fire on the people around her, while the other drives people away.
Although some men say they find confident women intimidating, it’s more about education than anything else.
If you grew up in a family, where your parents didn’t treat each other as equals and then you find a girl who’s already killing it in life, this messes with your internal analytics.
Confident women have priorities and they’re going after them.
They know their Worth. They don’t take unnecessary shit and will call you out on your own bullshit.
Every real man wants a woman he can take pride in, a person he can proudly call his partner.
Only weak men go for obedient women if you just wanted a maid or a nanny it would be a lot cheaper and less stressful to contract one.
The age of the bimbo is over.
Yes, they might look interesting. But in the same way, you would have fun looking at and riding a giraffe, you wouldn’t really want it living in your house. Would you?
Men look for someone, who shares their curiosity for the world. Someone who can hold a conversation.
Being smart has very little to do with academia, although there are some points to be made there as well.
Instead, men are looking for someone with depth over superficiality.
Someone who’s been well-read.
Who can connect the dots and talk from a position of, “I actually know what I’m talking about”, instead of just screaming.
The smarter you are, the more you understand the world and can rationalize other people’s behaviors. And by doing that you can act accordingly.
Being stupid isn’t cool.
Despite living in the most connected time in history, with access to free knowledge, we’re seeing a rise in stupidity in the West. The rise of the anti-vaxxer Flat Earth movements are just two examples.
There’s something beautiful when you find someone, who dreams big and has a plan on how to get there. Never forget the second part.
For most people, all they do is dream.
It’s exciting to hear from others that are on a journey, about how far they have come and where they’re going.
Men look for someone who’s going the same way, they are.
The last thing you want to be as an add-on to someone else’s life. It might be easy to do so.
But give it enough time and something builds inside of you. Something that wants to break out. Regret. It’s the regret that you lived your life through someone else’s vision and goals.
Although you might enjoy it, there is even greater satisfaction when you achieve your own dreams.
There’s nothing greater than finding someone who doesn’t need you but chooses to be with you. That’s freedom and true love.
Real men will always step up to the occasion when the time comes to provide and real women will do the same.
There’s so much value and having a partner who’s an asset in the relationship and not a liability.
People who can take care of themselves add value to the relationship and make it stronger.
You want to become someone who’s in control of her life and then shares that life with the person you love.
You hear it over and over again, in all marriage counselings sessions. Communication is key.
Yet people still fail to communicate, what they want and what they wish changed. This failure of putting into words the ideas that have been eating away at your soul is one of the biggest reasons why relationships fall apart.
If you don’t like something. Say it clearly.
Stop expecting other people to read your mind and they knew the answer of your answers.
Being a powerful woman is about making it clear, where you stand.
Here’s something we want you to take away from this point that’s incredibly valuable. Both in relationships and personal life. You can’t be mad at someone if you didn’t make it clear what expectations you had of the end result.
Yes means yes!
No means No!
If you don’t want something, just say it.
Don’t over complicate the simple things.
Men are looking for someone, who doesn’t take them for granted.
Everyone wants a partner that feels lucky to be with them.
It gives you a sense of value and builds up your bond.
Find yourself a girl that will cheer you on, when you’re undertaking a new project. Who you know is in your corner, ready to motivate you to try again.
It’s weird when we see toxic relationships, where one of the partners is so insecure that they feel the need to put the other one down, to cut their wings, because they’re scared of their potential.
You’re a team you’re supposed to help each other grow and reach new milestones, together!
We said it before and we’ll say it again. Her mindset will raise your children, not her body or good looks.
Starting a family is a scary process for everyone. Nobody knows exactly what they’re doing. This topic has been adequately covered in the separate articles “Pregnancy Blues” and “New Mothers: Journey On Lonely Road (Part 1)” and “New Mothers: Journey On Lonely Road (Part 2)“.
Contrary to what most women think, successful men always try to figure out, how great of a mother someone could be.
Raising children should always be a team effort and you want to know that the other person can fill those gaps, you can’t fill yourself.
Relationships change with time. They evolve.
The environment changes and we morph into different versions of ourselves.
Just because you’re having fun and listen to the same jams in your 20s, it doesn’t mean you’re going to be the right fit in another 10 years.
Never bring a child into this world, if you’re not committed to raising it to become a better version than both of you.
If you’re young, but have an interest in learning about yourself. How to build valuable relationships and even get ready to become a parent.
Nobody wants a partner that’s always a downer.
Positive people have a way of bringing energy levels up.
They see the half-full part of the glass.
You need those kinds of people in your life and you need them most in your household.
There needs to be a healthy dose of realism in that mix as well, otherwise, you’re just kidding yourselves and living in Equestria land.
Tell it like it is and then figure out, what is the best course of action.
Good taste and good vibes are so important in that chemistry is flowing in the air.
There’s something about a woman that understands beauty and quality that makes them attractive.
You’re supposed to explore the beauty of the world together and see how much of it you can implement in your own life. That’s what fine living is all about.
It’s an amazing experience, when someone introduces you to something new you didn’t know you liked.
Be that person for those around you and you’ll begin to see how they look differently at you.
Not to mention this completely saves you from being trashy.
In order to understand what poor taste is, you first need to be able to tell the difference.
If you did you wouldn’t be walking around with those bizarre nails. This never looks right.
These three all fall into the same characteristic.
Basically, you need to know you can count on the person you’re with, to be truthful with you. To keep their word and not act all crazy for no reason.
Being with someone who’s not like this, is draining, difficult and it makes you not enjoy life.
These are some of the most important traits you can improve in your life.
You’ll see that most of your relationships with others, personal or professional, are directly influenced by how high you rank on these three.
The more reliable you are perceived to be, the quicker you’ll progress financially and professionally.
People know they can count on you to deal with emerging problems. Making you perfect for top management positions.
In the same way, your partner will know that you are emotionally stable and you can be there for them when things take a turn for the worse.
Men like to take pride in their partners, not in the “look at my trophy wife” kind of way, you’re probably thinking of. But in the “she’s such an amazing person” and “I’m really lucky to be with her” kind of Way. This works for both sides.
If you’re not feeling this about your partner think twice before committing.
Think of who you are.
A personal resume if you will of your values, your actions your history, the way people think of you and your personal achievements.
If you’re not proud of yourself, nobody else will be.
Start putting your life in order.
Get those initial steps in and build yourself up first.
Then somebody who can appreciate you at your true value will show up and it will be amazing.
This is our forever desire.
Finding someone, who loves us back at least as much as we love them.
Love is complicated.
It’s not all rainbows and sunshine.
It requires work, sacrifice, forgiveness and a willingness to figure things out together.
We are complicated. Relationships are complicated.
But if you really feel strongly about someone, you’ll make the effort.
At the end of the day, that’s what we’re all looking for.
We know, this might come as counter-intuitive based on everything we said today. But it’s not what you expect it to be.
Men want to feel in power, need to fill the shoes of a protector and a provider.
They want a woman, who allows them to be that to basically feel like a real man.
These genetic masculine traits have been embedded in their genetic code since they were hunting saber teeth and it definitely feels like we’re going through a bit of a Dee-masculinization phase of men.
There’s a very long conversation to be had on the topic, but being a strong man doesn’t mean women have to be weak or the other way around.
It means we need to be strong at what we can be strong at and allow the other person to take charge, where they obviously can outperform their counterparts.
Women don’t need to become like men and men don’t need to become like women, for equality to be achieved.
Instead, why don’t we all try to take the best care we can of ourselves and those around us?
If this is the goal of being the best possible version we can be. Everybody wins!
Lastly, we are interested to know from you… What do men look for in a woman?
What would you add in this list?
Let’s start a conversation in a comment section and see if we can hear from both men and women, with the hopes of making it valuable for everyone.
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