The Explicit Indian Truth!

We, in the Indian subcontinent, are great souls who feel awkward in talking openly about sex. If we see anyone talking about the sex, then we all give such a look that as if he or she has asked their kidney on loan.

Bollywood Blues. In blockbuster Bollywood “Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam”, the heroine in her late 20s (Mrs. Aishwarya Rai Bachchan), locks her lips with the hero (Mr. Salman Khan), but within seconds of lips’ contact, she disengages herself. When confused hero asks, “What happened?”, She shares her concerns that if she kisses him, then she will get pregnant! WTF?

Early Exposure to Sex. When kids see actors in movies performing various sexual activities, then the actual curiosities starts. No one around them actually even attempts to understand their physical and psychological confusion.

Infertility. Everyone (especially Mother-in-Law) surely jump when she doesn’t get pregnant within the first or second year of marriage. By the third or fourth marriage anniversary, the wife’s fertility happens to be the talk of the family (and maybe the whole town)!

Culprit Wife. It is an accepted fact that if the lady is not able to conceive, then she is infertile. By the time the real culprit (Husband) gets exposed, the lady gets psychologically raped by her family members many times! Even if the fault is detected in the husband (and this fact is kept secret by him and his parents), even then the wife is expected to stay quiet.

Infertility. Everyone (especially Mother-in-Law) surely jump when she doesn’t get pregnant within the first or second year of marriage. By the third or fourth marriage anniversary, the wife’s fertility happens to be the talk of the family (and maybe the whole town)!

Culprit Wife. It is an accepted fact that if the lady is not able to conceive, then she is infertile. By the time the real culprit (Husband) gets exposed, the lady gets psychologically raped by her family members many times! Even if the fault is detected in the husband (and this fact is kept secret by him and his parents), even then the wife is expected to stay quiet.

Then the attempt to explore more about sex starts, from whatever source possible. Internet, Fakebooks claiming about true literature on sex, sex stories, school mates (who are equally confused about it!).

Sex Education. We expect school teachers to give sex education to the kids as if they are their biological parents! Also, parents, most of the time assume that it’s their kid’s responsibility to learn significant facts about sex and its related activities (may be on their own!). It’s known the fact that anything labeled with term Sex, attracts not only the attention of adults but kids too.

Sex is never considered as “Good Idea” for school curriculum. School and teachers expect their students to be informed about sex from parents and parents expect school authorities to do the needful. Now, what is the final result? A confused psychological state of mind of all kids, who are ready to explore and experiment on sex-related doubt in every possible method under the sun.

How can teachers be made responsible for opening up kids to be inquisitive about sex-related topics with them and clear all their doubts, when their own producers (or biological parents) are not comfortable discussing sex with their kids?

Masturbation Queries. Is masturbation the natural and wholesome substitute of sex?

Can hands or fingers (in masturbation) substitute whole human body (opposite sex) or are we just trying to make a fool of our sex organs?

Parents are least bothered about the facts like whether our son or daughter has started masturbating? If yes, then since when they are doing this act? Are they following safe practices or harming themselves? Are they using porn movies in their smartphones to get excited and release their stress?

It is also assumed the fact that if one wants to avoid masturbation for life, then that person should get married! Is that actually
true? Married readers can give better answers!

Ready for Marriage? Once a girl or boy achieve the golden age of 23 years and above, the parents start jumping for marrying them off! Why? Because they are afraid that their son or daughter may get physically involved with someone. Special mention to girls, who may also get pregnant! Who will take responsibility for abortion and associated social stigma?

Its a socially accepted assumption that the boys and girls should quietly accept Arranged Marriages’ proposals of the family’s choice because the couple’s compatibility and resultant sex is not their domain to worry about! Everything is assumed to be falling in place once both of them are married, they will understand each other by performing the sacred ritual of “First Night”!


First Night. We never allow our daughters to talk or think about sex, till the moments before her First Night (Everything is left on the assumption that “ALL WILL BE WELL!”). Also, we never try to find out what happened in the First Night and again leave everything important thing on the assumption that “ALL WAS WELL!”. What if the performance was not even satisfactory? What if the size of the penis was not even worth the money spent on marriage celebration? What if the husband finds it very difficult to keep his penis erected or even survive the act for 2 minutes?

Infertility. Everyone (especially Mother-in-Law) surely jump when she doesn’t get pregnant within the first or second year of marriage. By the third or fourth marriage anniversary, the wife’s fertility happens to be the talk of the family (and maybe the whole town)!

Culprit Wife. It is an accepted fact that if the lady is not able to conceive, then she is infertile. By the time the real culprit (Husband) gets exposed, the lady gets psychologically raped by her family members many times! Even if the fault is detected in the husband (and this fact is kept secret by him and his parents), even then the wife is expected to stay quiet.

Sex – Men’s Right. We all feel that men only need sex and females are not supposed to talk about sex. I think we need to understand basic psychology first.

In India, girls are kept with lots of restrictions. Starting from clothes, boyfriends, online activities on social media, etc. Their steps are scrutinized at every level. Slowly the fundamental nature of sheep gets inculcated inside every Indian girl. They start behaving as if, thinking about sex becomes a crime. But is this the real fact. No!

The silence of the Lamb. In India, during First Night, brides are expected to play along with the tunes of her newly appointed husband. She is not expected to show her accumulated knowledge about sex. She is expected to behave like a lamb, who knows nothing and looks towards her husband for directives. If the brides express her intentions to have the same pleasure as that of husband, then the first question which pops up in the husband’s mind “Is she an experienced whore?”.

Lady’s Kick on Dick. Ladies need sex with same body’s requirement as that of men. Even when expecting to achieve orgasm, when they don’t reach climax, the level of frustration accumulated in lady’s mind and body happens to be much more than that of men. If a hot-headed woman indulges ins sex with a man, but his game doesn’t survive even for two minutes, then that woman gets more frustration accumulated within her mind and body than her male counterpart. If she is allowed by law, she will not mind even killing that man on the same bed, then and there only. Or maybe his incapable dick will surely be kicked for sure.

Sex Toy Shops? Sex toys play a significant role in improving pleasure during sex. Since sex is permitted after marriage, and with World’s second-largest population in this country, unavailability of sex toys shop is just unimaginable. Government and people need to understand that a person legally and officially performs sex after marriage for almost the next 30 to 40 years.

Marital Blues. With the restriction of having sex with the only spouse, for 30 to 40 years actually complicates the issue. So, sex toys should be allowed in this country. When it has been accepted as an essential aspect of life in a foreign country, then nothing should stop Indians too.

Sex Toys: A Distant Dream. Have you ever thought of visiting or even the requirement of a sex toy shop in India? Although, if given a chance then every girl and boy will prefer to have one sex toy 24×7 with her or him. Even married couple too require external help of sex toys manage the game after 20 to 30 years of marriage.

Cheap Smartphones + Internet = Free Porn. Now, most of the Indian population have smartphones, be it more affordable handset (Thanks to global cutthroat competitions in the sale of smartphones!). Mi smartphones have revolutionized the Indian Smartphone market, by successfully penetrating into deep suburbs towns and villages. We may not find electricity in these places, but will definitely find smartphones ringing in top volumes.

With Reliance Jio penetrating deep into Indian mobile internet market in mid-2016 and resultant cut-throat competition in the telecom sector. Now every soul, who can pay Rs. 300, gets 1 GB of mobile data, every day, for 84 days!!! Can you beat that price?

With 1 GB data every day, a person can scan a lot of porn movies! Everyday! Now with every soul with personal smartphones is master of his or her own will. You want to watch porn, just close your room doors and bang!

Mobile Addiction. In early old days, we used to have some events, done throughout the day, where some personal time was ensured. Like Morning routine of potty and bathing, eating food, sleeping, and resting.

As a result of addiction of smartphones, human beings have invented various ways and means to stay connected on social media 24×7. We have just crossed all possible limits of being online updated about who is doing what, when and where.

Cut Throat Competition = Stress. With increased ambitions to earn more money and surviving market’s cut-throat competition, 24×7 connectivity of the World Wide Web results in further elongated or extended working hours and less rest. This elevates the stress levels in our body. Amazon is very famous in the Global World for the never-ending workload. Senior Managers just find it extremely difficult to hold back their tears during official board meetings, where targets don’t match with expectations.

Just imagine that you have planned for great sex tonight, but suddenly you receive an abusive message (SMS or Whatsapp) from your boss, criticizing about your blunder, committed in the office today, asking you to meet him in the office next morning. Will you be able to maintain your performance after reading that message?

Modern Technology. With phenomenal advancements in the field of smartphones, automobiles, social media, online services, the requirement of someone to move the body is slowly diminishing. Everything is available with a click of a button. With Swiggy, Zomato, Uber eats and food chains like McDonald’s Dominoes, Pizza Huts, the requirement of making food at home is going for a toss. With so many discounts and offers, we also get tempted to order everything online. With modern technology comes the laziness, which slowly reduces the body’s capacity to perform in bed. We all have adopted a sedentary lifestyle (including our little children), which increases the risk of developing Type II Diabetes and as mentioned above is the only reason.

Unhealthy Marriages. Unhappy or unsatisfied marriage results in 24×7 emotional and physical stress, which leads to overeating (It’s a known fact that overeating, special mention to sweets, happens to be a significant stress buster) and results in further health complications. Both stress and overeating lead to lifestyle diseases like obesity, diabetes, hypertension, etc. These diseases catch hold of your life like the second spouse. With lifestyle diseases also added to an unhappy marriage, God only knows the future consequences! While dealing with lifestyle diseases, every soul knows that medical expenses happen to go out of control.

Patron. Senior male businessman gives money for the hospital

Conclusion

So, till marriage, your parents will keep track of your sex issues. After marriage, your Arranged Spouse will keep track of your Sexual Instinct. Whether you love your spouse or not, he or she will ensure that you don’t get what your body wants!

Due to”Unhappy Marriage”, if you try to explore the options of “Extra Marital Affairs” or “One Night Stand”, then you can be ready to face a Divorce case with unrealistic Compensation! So, by taking birth in a conservative Indian Family and getting into Forced Arranged Marriage, YOU ARE BOUND TO DIE AS “SEXUALLY DEPRIVED ANIMAL”!

Now with so much of restrictions in One’s Sex Life, the mind and body keep contradicting each other. The body wants sex, but mind loudly read out social rules and regulations. What to do? Nothing, just use your hands or fingers and keep regretting for taking birth in the Indian subcontinent. Even marriage cannot guarantee a satisfied sex life. This results in Indians contracting lifestyle diseases at a very early age. Depression, High BP, Diabetes, etc.

What next?

Social Acceptance. Let us accept the fact that sex is not an essential but necessary requirement of human being. Instead of considering as taboo, let us accept it as a topic worth discussing openly, without any hesitation. Parents need to understand the importance of SEX EDUCATION. For kids, parents also need to follow the policy of “LIVE AND LET LIVE.”

African more Advanced than India?

The video of great discussion in an African country’s parliament where the health minister is openly advertising about “Silent and Better Condoms” during one of his Parliamentary debates! You can’t believe your eyes, then please watch the video placed below:-

Courtesy: Youtube

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